TOUCH BEFORE YOU PLAY: At the start of a scene with consent and communication, start out touching the areas of concern to gain a road map. Feel for bony structures and tender areas that you want to avoid, this will allow you to feel the areas of concern and relax the person you have a scene with.
KIDNEYS: High risk zone These are located in the back, below the rib cage and above the butt. If you have a whip or a flogger you’ll be using the back as a nice broad target but you should be leaving this entire area alone. The kidneys are extremely delicate and it doesn’t take much to impact them, so consider this area a definite no-fly zone.
TAILBONE: Dont go here While you’re avoiding the kidney area, keep clear of the tailbone too. It’s at the base of the spine and although a whip is unlikely to break it, it’s certainly possible. It’s also very uncomfortable when it’s bruised.
SPINE: High risk zone The spine in general, top to tail, should be avoided. It’s easy to bruise because there’s not much protecting it, and it’s made up of disks that could be dislodged or impacted.
HIPS: High risk zone The sciatic nerve and several other nerves run through the buttocks and across the bony outer part of the upper thigh/hip. They’re fairly well protected by fat and muscle in your butt, but there’s not very much protection in the hip area. If you’ve ever known anyone who’s had a pinched or impacted nerve here, you’ll know it’s not nice.
NECK: Dont go here Along with your airways, your neck is a major superhighway of arteries, tendons and glands. There are things you can do in BDSM with the neck, but hitting it should never be one of them.
FACE:High risk zone I’m not going to tell you not to face-slap, but if you are going to do it, do it safely. Use your other hand to support the head and focus on what you are doing. A sudden rush of air pressure can damage the eardrums, so ears are a no-go area.
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